Sometimes the happiness we want is not available to us right now. But there is always a happiness available to us, from wherever we are. It’s just about finding it.
Last week I broke down my song, Me & Mine and the two types of “high vibe freedom” that the song highlights.
The two types are basically:
1) happiness through connection and
2) happiness through solitude (another type of connection).
I used to be the total victim of my circumstances. Often, what I wanted did not match what was happening and it bummed me the F out. I felt like I had no control.
The unfortunate thing is, we humans can find ourselves wanting the one type of happiness when the other type is the only one available to us. “The grass is always greener on the other side.”
What a pain in the ass. But there’s a solution.
Life is all about turning lemons into lemonade. That’s one of the main lessons for all of us, I think we can all agree? That’s what this comes down to. I’m so sorry to have to tell you this. It’s such a bummer. BUT at the same time, it’s such a relief.
You can always look for the particular type of happiness that is available to you at any given moment. What you seek you shall find. It’s a great shortcut.
It all starts in your imagination, imagining yourself happy. You + something = happy now.
It’s just about figuring out what that something could be. What other ingredients are you working with?
Maybe you have annoying people around you so the only missing ingredient is boundaries or physical distance.
Or maybe you feel lonely so the only missing ingredient is a peaceful feeling, which you could find in nature.
Another place you can find whatever ingredient you’re missing…. You know what I’m gonna say… MUSIC!!
Music is the totally underrated missing ingredient - it’s an answer to all sorts of questions.
So tell me, what song is YOUR answer to happiness right now?
For me it’s Moi Je Joue by Brigitte Bardot, and of COURSE my new song Me & Mine!
