How and Why to Write HAPPY SONGS

As a songwriter, it's easy to fall into the trap of writing sad or melancholic songs. After all, it's often said that the best art comes from pain, and there's certainly a lot of truth to that. But as someone who focuses on self-help and positivity, joy and growth, I believe that there's just as much value in writing happy songs. Not more not less, EQUAL. 

First of all, it's important to understand why we're wired to focus on negative emotions. Our brains are designed to scan the environment for potential threats, and negative emotions like fear and anger are powerful signals that something is wrong. This is known as our negativity bias, and it means that we're more likely to remember negative experiences and emotions than positive ones.

But this bias can be problematic, especially if we're trying to cultivate a positive mindset. If we're constantly focusing on negative emotions, it can be difficult to see the good in the world and in ourselves. That's why writing happy songs is so important – it helps to counterbalance our natural negativity bias and shift our focus to the positive.

So HOW exactly can you write happy songs? I GOTCHU!!

Here are 5 tips:

1. Focus on gratitude. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can help to counteract negativity. Try writing a song that expresses gratitude for the good things in your life – whether it's a supportive partner, a beautiful day, or just the ability to breathe and move.

2. Embrace simplicity. Sometimes the simplest things in life can bring us the most joy. Instead of trying to write a complex song with lots of metaphor and imagery, try focusing on the simple pleasures in life – like the warmth of the sun on your face or the sound of birds singing in the morning.

3. Use uplifting chords and melodies. The chords and melodies you use can have a big impact on the emotional tone of your song. Experiment with major chords and bright, upbeat melodies to create a happy and uplifting sound.

4. Write about love. Love is one of the most powerful and positive emotions there is, and it's a great source of inspiration for happy songs. Whether you're writing about romantic love, friendship, or self-love, focusing on love can help to create a positive and uplifting message.

5. Celebrate the little things. Life is full of small moments of joy and beauty that we often overlook. Try writing a song that celebrates these little things – like the way the light filters through the trees in the afternoon, or the taste of your favorite food.

Writing happy songs isn't always easy – especially if you're used to writing from a place of pain or sadness. But it's worth the effort. Not only does it help to counteract our natural negativity bias, but it can also be a powerful tool for cultivating a positive mindset and spreading positivity to others. So the next time you sit down to write, try focusing on the good – and see where it takes you.

HERE ARE SOME PROMPTS FOR YOU TO RUN WITH!!!

1. Write a song about the simple pleasures in life, like the feeling of sunshine on your face or the sound of birds chirping in the morning.

2. Write a song about the people in your life who bring you joy and make you feel loved.

3. Write a song about a happy memory from your childhood, like playing with friends or going on a family vacation.

4. Write a song about the beauty of nature, like a gorgeous sunset or a field of wildflowers.

5. Write a song about the feeling of falling in love, with all its butterflies and excitement.

6. Write a song about the joys of friendship, like staying up all night talking or going on adventures together.

7. Write a song about the little things that make life great, like a cozy blanket or your favorite meal.

8. Write a song about the feeling of pure joy and elation, like dancing in the rain or singing at the top of your lungs.

9. Write a song about the beauty of human connection and how it can bring us all together.

10. Write a song about the feeling of contentment and peace, like taking a deep breath of fresh air or sitting by a fire.

BONUS PROMPT: Write a song about the power of choosing to be positive! METAAA 😀

You MUST tell me what you think and more importantly what you come up with!!

The Two Types of Songwriters

As a songwriter, I have always been fascinated by the different paths that lead people to this art form. Some songwriters are born with a natural talent for crafting melodies and lyrics, while others seem to stumble upon their passion for music later in life. But what I have come to realize is that there is more to songwriting than just raw talent or coincidence - there is a spiritual element at play.

When we think of naturally talented songwriters, we often imagine someone who can effortlessly create beautiful music without any formal training. It just HITS them out of nowhere!

But the truth is, even those who are born with an innate ability to write songs have had to put in the work to hone their craft. They may have started writing songs at a young age, or they may have had a parent or mentor who encouraged them to explore their musical talents. But regardless of how they got started, they have spent countless hours practicing and perfecting their craft, whether or not it felt like practice.

On the other hand, there are those who discover their love for music later in life. They may have been drawn to songwriting as a way to express themselves or to connect with others. They may not have had any formal training, but they have a deep love and appreciation for music that drives them to learn and grow as songwriters. And with hard work and dedication, they can become just as skilled as those who were born with a natural talent for songwriting.

In my opinion, all that it takes to become a songwriter is LOVING MUSIC. If you love it deeply, it lives in you.

What I have come to understand is that songwriting is not just a talent or a hobby- it's a spiritual calling. It's a way for us to connect with the divine and to express the deepest parts of our souls. And whether we are born with a natural talent for songwriting or we choose to learn and develop our skills, we ALL have the potential to create beautiful and meaningful music.

So, to all the aspiring songwriters out there, don't be discouraged if you don't feel like you have a natural talent for songwriting. Remember that it's not just about raw talent, it's about the love and passion you have for music. And with hard work and dedication, you can tap into the spiritual element of songwriting and create music that is truly beautiful and meaningful.