10 Tips for Creating Your Own Wedding Playlists

 
 

I know planning a wedding can be a little overwhelming. It's all about the details, and let's be real, those details can add up. But one thing you don't have to break the bank on is your wedding music. I'm here to help you create the perfect playlist on a budget, because let's be real, the last thing you need is more stress. 

I believe that what you put into something is what you get out of it, so put some FUN into the preparation. So sit back, grab a glass of bubbly, and  let's get started on creating the soundtrack to your big day!

These tips will help you navigate the process and make it an enjoyable experience! Whether you're a bride-to-be, a wedding planner, or just in charge of the music, these tips will make creating the perfect playlist a little easier.

  1. Don't be afraid to include some guilty pleasure songs. Everyone has that one song they love that they're embarrassed to admit, but trust me, it'll be a hit on the dance floor.

  2. Don't be afraid to get creative with your song choices. Think outside the box and include some lesser-known indie tracks or throwback hits.

  3. Make sure you have a good mix of slow and fast songs. You don't want everyone sitting down during the whole reception, but you also don't want your guests passed out from exhaustion.

  4. Don't forget about the parents. Include some songs that will appeal to the older generation and get them out on the dance floor.

  5. Make sure you have a good balance of different genres. Your guests will appreciate a little bit of everything.

  6. Don't be afraid to include some personal favorites. These songs will hold special meaning for you and your partner, and your guests will love hearing them.

  7. Don't forget about the little ones. Include some kid-friendly songs for the little ones to dance to.

  8. Make sure you have a good mix of new and old songs. You don't want your playlist to be too outdated, but you also don't want it to be too current.

  9. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Get input from friends and family to help you choose the perfect songs for your big day.

  10. Have fun with it! This is your special day, so make sure you choose songs that you'll enjoy dancing to with your new spouse and guests.

If you want a break-down of every playlist you need and a workbook that walks you through everything to think about, grab my Playlist Power Hour PDF! I’ve mapped out the WHOLE day so all you have to do is print the thing out, and start creating your playlists!

The Playlist Prescription

THE DOCTOR IS IN!!

During the holidays, it’s imperative to ramp up your energy practices. Whether you take that physically or metaphysically, music can support you either way! 

People can be a little extra sensitive during this time of year and it can be a time where many of us spend more time with people who might trigger us. 

That’s just the way it is! It’s totally fine to be affected by the people around you. 


But, if you can anticipate the way the people around you might affect you, then you can make a plan!


Never underestimate the power of a good strategy!

And never underestimate the power of music!

And… NEVER underestimate…. 

Just kidding. 


NOT kidding!...

…INTENTION!
Intention is so important.

SO: Strategy. Music. Intention. 

YEAH! Those are our main actors.

All leading us to today’s point: playlists!!

I am implying you to create a playlist for yourself for the holidays.

This playlist will be comprised of two main halves. 

One half will be emotions that you need to express.

The other half will be emotions that you’d like to embody. 

This way, we are “BUILDING the candle at both ends.” We are addressing and soothing the negative emotions while simultaneously improving and expanding the positive emotions. 


For me, for example, my holiday prescription playlist is mainly comprised of Spanish or Cuban Salsa and, oppositely, gritty/edgy rock. These two genres activate opposite parts of my energy in order to keep me in balance: the salsa leaning genre encourages me to relax and enjoy life while the rock encourages me to express and embody my frustration, which I’m otherwise unlikely to do– which is denial, which is unhealthy. 

So this looks like Lucinda Williams right next to Buena Vista Social Club.

Tell me what your holiday prescription playlists are! Send them to meee, please and thank youuu!